My work is all about education and empowerment. If you are here, you are more than likely having to "co-parent" with a narcissist. This is a lesson in futility, as a narcissist is simply incapable of ever checking their fragile egos at the door; putting aside their own wants and needs; keeping their children out of adult conflict; and any form of compromise that doesn't benefit them.
Their inability to co-parent, means that you have more than likely moved into parallel parenting, but are still feeling that this is chaos, because it is. They are actively and intentionally counter parenting. And it can be the most exhausting, anxiety-inducing, stressful place to find yourself in. The constant chaos and confusion they intentionally create as a means to continue to control you and exert power over you.
This is where I come in. I help you create clarity; reduce stress and anxiety; become far more confident in your ability to parent your children; and empower you, so that you can then in turn empower your children. I want you all to live a life you love, despite what your active counter parent does, or doesn't do.
"Thank you so much Chantal, for your support and work. Because of you, I know how to handle my kids, how to parent, something I was really struggling with." -M.S Canada
Meet Chantal, a certified high conflict divorce and parenting coach on a mission to empower protective parents through one of the hardest journeys: "co-parenting" with a narcissist.
My own divorce did not define me, but it did, however, spark a drive and passion in me to educate and empower those parents navigating the tumultuous waters of co-parenting. This is why I do the work that I do. I want to educate and empower as many parents as possible, so that they can truly live their best lives, despite what their counter parents do, or don't do.
I have paired my formal education, a double major in English and Psychology, my 20 plus years of teaching, with extensive training to become a high conflict divorce and co-parenting coach. Add in the many years of extensive research, a very thorough deep dive if you will, to fully understand narcissism, sociopathy, and coercive control.
Abuse cycles stop when education starts.
I truly believe that knowledge is power and empowering- knowing what you are up against is the greatest superpower you can have when having to "co-parent" with this type of personality.
This is your one stop shop for any protective parent who is being forced to "co-parent" with a narcissist. The most supportive, empowering and educational membership out there. In this collective, you'll find:
* parents just like you;
* an incredibly supportive community that gets you, understands your pain and is there to uplift you, empower you and support you;
* tons of members only perks;
* LIVE access to me weekly for my "Office Hours" where you can connect with me to have your questions answered;
* the ability to book private 1:1 coaching with me (I don't offer 1:1 outside of this collective);
* 3 support groups to choose from: one for moms, one for dads, and one for step parents;
* monthly expert guest speakers;
* community chats where other members can answer your questions and you can answer theirs
A series of 3 masterclasses:
These are for protective parents who have to co-parent with a narcissist and are wanting to educate and empower themselves. They are preventative in nature as prevention is always the best medicine.
You will leave each masterclass with actionable tools and strategies that you can actually start using that very day.
This is an 8 week intensive private coaching program to help you navigate "co-parenting" with a narcissist. It will:
*educate and empower you , so that you can create more peace in your home;
*equip your children with the tools and strategies they'll need to navigate their relationship with a narcissistic parent;
*help you meet your children where they need to be met;
*and protect your bond with your children from your ex's active counter parenting.
It is tailored specifically to your unique needs, issues, concerns, and relationship dynamics to get you your desired outcomes. With this hands on support, you'll also have direct access to me via unlimited daytime texting support to help you trouble shoot any issues in real time.
This is for us to connect so that we can go over your main areas of concern and issues to see if my private 8 week coaching program is for you.
Here are some of the signs that your children are being counter parented by your ex.
Your child comes home rude, withdrawn, dismissive, critical. What you can do about it.
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How to "co-parent" with a narcissist, The Private client
Australia
How to safeguard your children, The Masterclass attendee
USA
Email: [email protected]
Site: www.chantalcontorinescoaching.com